I shared this piece on Facebook a few days ago. It's a great piece of writing, both for its message and its creativity. Because not all of my blog readers are Facebook friends (or are Facebook friends that get my updates in their feeds), I thought that I'd post it here as well.
You may want to listen to it a second time and pay a little bit closer attention to the sentence structure so that you can truly appreciate the creative process.
Enjoy,
John
Friday, March 18, 2011
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Funny Stuff
This joke was posted by my cousin on her "Friday Funnies" Facebook status.
Okay, so it's only Thursday (here) but since she lives on the other side of the globe she's right on time with her post!
Thanks, Etcha.
This is why RETIRED people don’t have any spare time!!!!
Working people frequently ask retired people what they do to make their days interesting.
Well, for example, the other day, Bev my wife and I went into town and visited a shop.
When we came out, there was a warden writing out a parking ticket.
We went up to him and I said, 'Come on, man, how about giving a senior citizen a break?'
He ignored us and continued writing the ticket.
I called him an “a--hole”. He glared at me and started writing another ticket for having worn-out tires.
So Bev called him a “s--t head”. He finished the second ticket and put it on the windshield with the first.
Then he started writing more tickets.
This went on for about 20 minutes.
The more we abused him, the more tickets he wrote.
Just then our bus arrived, and we got on it and went home.
We try to have a little fun each day now that we're retired.
It's important at our age.
John<><
Okay, so it's only Thursday (here) but since she lives on the other side of the globe she's right on time with her post!
Thanks, Etcha.
This is why RETIRED people don’t have any spare time!!!!
Working people frequently ask retired people what they do to make their days interesting.
Well, for example, the other day, Bev my wife and I went into town and visited a shop.
When we came out, there was a warden writing out a parking ticket.
We went up to him and I said, 'Come on, man, how about giving a senior citizen a break?'
He ignored us and continued writing the ticket.
I called him an “a--hole”. He glared at me and started writing another ticket for having worn-out tires.
So Bev called him a “s--t head”. He finished the second ticket and put it on the windshield with the first.
Then he started writing more tickets.
This went on for about 20 minutes.
The more we abused him, the more tickets he wrote.
Just then our bus arrived, and we got on it and went home.
We try to have a little fun each day now that we're retired.
It's important at our age.
John<><
Monday, March 14, 2011
A Post about Nothing
As I sit this morning I'm reminded of the Seinfeld episode where they pitch a "show about nothing". That's what this is--a post about nothing.
Okay, so eventually it has to be about something, but for starters...I've got nothing. It could be another day without a post at Out of My Hat, (there have been plenty of those lately) but I have been inspired by my friends at the OCACW to write...just write. Of course, I doubt that they meant for me to publish the contents of my brain dump; it's supposed to be an exercise to dig your way out of a writer's block. None-the-less, here it is:
The thing that seems to be at the forefront of my thoughts lately is the movement of the Spirit at my home church of Hopedale. It reminds me of the tsunami wave that we've heard about in the news lately. In the open ocean it's barely noticeable; a two foot wave making it's way at an incredible speed. As it nears land fall and the ocean floor rises, so does the crest of the mighty wave. When it finally breaks and makes landfall, the force is of the magnitude that man cannot resist and can only be overpowered by it or race to avoid it.
In many ways, that's what I'm seeing at Hopedale. To an outsider looking in, the Kids Against Hunger event our kids participated in, the girls serving dinner at the Ronald MacDonald House, the planned mission trip to Nicaragua, the sharing of a passion for helping sick orphans in China--all of these things are things that churches do and should be doing. The thing is--they are things that WE haven't been doing.
Individuals within our church have been; that's how they've come to be church projects. But as a fellowship of believers, this is the first time that the church is really focusing on the world of people outside of our walls. It's exciting to be here; to be a part of the swelling rush of this great movement.
Although the tsunami from the Japanese earthquake did a lot of damage in Japan, it never amounted to too much as it crossed the Pacific Ocean. Sometimes it's like that. Sometimes it is devastating; like the Indonesian one of 2004.
In one sense, it doesn't sound right to think of a movement of the Holy Spirit to be devastating. But then again, it will take a great power to break down the strongholds and traditions of men; traditions that stand in the way of the progress and power of God. Yes, we the church--the institution ordained by Jesus, are often the greatest obstacle in path of His Holy Spirit. That's changing at Hopedale ... and it's pretty exciting to watch it and to be a part of it!
If you live in the area and don't have a home church, I want to invite you to my church.
If you've felt a longing in your soul for something more out of life, a sense that there is a God that is calling on you; please contact me and let me share my beliefs about God and His great plans for you.
If you are not close to Ozark, MO in the US of A and need to find a church home, contact me and I will do everything that I can to put you in contact with Bible believing Christians where ever you are.
As I look back over the words of a Monday morning rant, I see that it is no longer A Post About Nothing. It has become a post about something that is very important to me and to the many people that have yet to come in contact with the Living God through one of my brothers or sisters from Hopedale.
I'll leave the title the way it stands and take away a lesson learned: Write, just write.
John <><
Okay, so eventually it has to be about something, but for starters...I've got nothing. It could be another day without a post at Out of My Hat, (there have been plenty of those lately) but I have been inspired by my friends at the OCACW to write...just write. Of course, I doubt that they meant for me to publish the contents of my brain dump; it's supposed to be an exercise to dig your way out of a writer's block. None-the-less, here it is:
The thing that seems to be at the forefront of my thoughts lately is the movement of the Spirit at my home church of Hopedale. It reminds me of the tsunami wave that we've heard about in the news lately. In the open ocean it's barely noticeable; a two foot wave making it's way at an incredible speed. As it nears land fall and the ocean floor rises, so does the crest of the mighty wave. When it finally breaks and makes landfall, the force is of the magnitude that man cannot resist and can only be overpowered by it or race to avoid it.
In many ways, that's what I'm seeing at Hopedale. To an outsider looking in, the Kids Against Hunger event our kids participated in, the girls serving dinner at the Ronald MacDonald House, the planned mission trip to Nicaragua, the sharing of a passion for helping sick orphans in China--all of these things are things that churches do and should be doing. The thing is--they are things that WE haven't been doing.
Individuals within our church have been; that's how they've come to be church projects. But as a fellowship of believers, this is the first time that the church is really focusing on the world of people outside of our walls. It's exciting to be here; to be a part of the swelling rush of this great movement.
Although the tsunami from the Japanese earthquake did a lot of damage in Japan, it never amounted to too much as it crossed the Pacific Ocean. Sometimes it's like that. Sometimes it is devastating; like the Indonesian one of 2004.
In one sense, it doesn't sound right to think of a movement of the Holy Spirit to be devastating. But then again, it will take a great power to break down the strongholds and traditions of men; traditions that stand in the way of the progress and power of God. Yes, we the church--the institution ordained by Jesus, are often the greatest obstacle in path of His Holy Spirit. That's changing at Hopedale ... and it's pretty exciting to watch it and to be a part of it!
If you live in the area and don't have a home church, I want to invite you to my church.
If you've felt a longing in your soul for something more out of life, a sense that there is a God that is calling on you; please contact me and let me share my beliefs about God and His great plans for you.
If you are not close to Ozark, MO in the US of A and need to find a church home, contact me and I will do everything that I can to put you in contact with Bible believing Christians where ever you are.
As I look back over the words of a Monday morning rant, I see that it is no longer A Post About Nothing. It has become a post about something that is very important to me and to the many people that have yet to come in contact with the Living God through one of my brothers or sisters from Hopedale.
I'll leave the title the way it stands and take away a lesson learned: Write, just write.
John <><
Saturday, March 12, 2011
On Books
On this sunny Saturday morning, I find myself biding my time in the local Starbucks. I have a couple of hours before our monthly meeting of the Ozark's Chapter of the American Christian Writers' meeting and didn't feeling like driving home after working the mid only to turn around and head back to Springfield after a couple of hours. As long as I have a couple of hours, free wi-fi and free coffee refills; I thought I'd write a bit on some of the things that have been rolling around in the otherwise empty space in my head.
Last night, I finally got around to finishing the book I started a couple of weeks ago. For some reason, I wasn't well focused on reading it and so, even though it was interesting and entertaining, it took me a while to get through it. The book was Lynne Truss' book on punctuation, Eats, Shoots and Leaves. It's an fun look at the struggles that our society seems to have with proper punctuation. The joke that inspired the title is this:
A panda walks into a café. He orders a sandwich, eats it, then draws a gun and proceeds to fire it at the other patrons.
Last night, I finally got around to finishing the book I started a couple of weeks ago. For some reason, I wasn't well focused on reading it and so, even though it was interesting and entertaining, it took me a while to get through it. The book was Lynne Truss' book on punctuation, Eats, Shoots and Leaves. It's an fun look at the struggles that our society seems to have with proper punctuation. The joke that inspired the title is this:
A panda walks into a café. He orders a sandwich, eats it, then draws a gun and proceeds to fire it at the other patrons.
'Why?' asks the confused, surviving waiter amidst the carnage, as the panda makes towards the exit. The panda produces a badly punctuated wildlife manual and tosses it over his shoulder.
'Well, I'm a panda,' he says, at the door. 'Look it up.'
The waiter turns to the relevant entry in the manual and, sure enough, finds an explanation. 'Panda. Large black-and-white bear-like mammal, native to China. Eats, shoots and leaves.'
Funny.
It's a good read if you're a self proclaimed grammar nazi like my daughter or a wannabe writer like myself.
I also started and finished a quick read last night: Todd Burpo"s Heaven is for Real. Though it is a quick, easy read, it has some simple but sound theology and will have you smiling at times and then pausing to clear the tears from your eyes moments later so that you can continue to read.
Too often, we get so wrapped up in theology that we miss the simple message of the Gospel: God loves you (He really loves you!), and Jesus died for you. Leave it to the simple understanding of a four year old to keep the truth plain and pure.
If you are a believer, a follower of Jesus; this book will affirm much of what you've been taught and clarify the simple message of the Bible.
If you are a skeptic, or a doubter, or a seeker of truth; this book may answer some questions or give you some new things to ponder. In either case, if you have questions that you want answered, but don't want them published, just e-mail me at gospelmagic@gmail.com or comment here but tell me that you don't want it published.
As a final bonus to today's post, I want to share an mp3 download. It is a 10 minute message that was delivered by my son last weekend at a communion service at Holy Trinity Church in Chicago. I hope that you take the time to listen to it. Aaron did a great job sharing about what our response should be to a Holy God. To help you as you listen, here is the text to Psalm 99.
John <><
Wednesday, March 09, 2011
Ash Wednesday
At a point long ago, it seems to me that ash Wednesday was a day of fasting in the Catholic Church. Like many of the disciplines of faith, I think that has been set aside in favor of more convenient forms of self denial. I may have this wrong as it has been quite sometime since I've been up on current traditions of the Catholic Church. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.
At any rate, the ultimate example of self-denial comes from Jesus, Himself. Paul tells us that even though He had the very nature of God, He set that aside and took on human flesh; the form of a servant and was obedient unto death; even death on the cross. Fasting is a way to remind ourselves of His sacrifice.
Ultimately, fasting is a form of purification. An extended fast allows the body to purge itself of toxins and use up weak or sick cells for energy. It is a rite of cleansing; a way to present yourself as purified before the Lord. I'm wondering if there will be many that fast today; not that it really matters. That decision is between an individual and their God. Muslims have a modified fast that they perform during their Holy seasons. Orthodox Jews have days of fasting. It seems that fasting has become a lost discipline in the contemporary Christian church. Maybe we're just not into that whole self denial thing. Maybe we need to reread those words from the Apostle Paul. You'll find them here.
Have a great day.
John <><
At any rate, the ultimate example of self-denial comes from Jesus, Himself. Paul tells us that even though He had the very nature of God, He set that aside and took on human flesh; the form of a servant and was obedient unto death; even death on the cross. Fasting is a way to remind ourselves of His sacrifice.
Ultimately, fasting is a form of purification. An extended fast allows the body to purge itself of toxins and use up weak or sick cells for energy. It is a rite of cleansing; a way to present yourself as purified before the Lord. I'm wondering if there will be many that fast today; not that it really matters. That decision is between an individual and their God. Muslims have a modified fast that they perform during their Holy seasons. Orthodox Jews have days of fasting. It seems that fasting has become a lost discipline in the contemporary Christian church. Maybe we're just not into that whole self denial thing. Maybe we need to reread those words from the Apostle Paul. You'll find them here.
Have a great day.
John <><
Monday, March 07, 2011
Something Old, Something New...(sort of)
This week marks the beginning of Lent. It is a time of preparation as much of the Christian world looks ahead to the celebration of the Resurrection of Jesus. Lent is not a time that is generally observed by most evangelical denominations; nor is it observed by some Protestant denominations.
Having grown up in a Roman Catholic home, deciding what to "give up" for Lent was always a matter of concern. It's been a long time since I've observed Lent through any type of self-denial. However, while many of my Baptist friends may not understand or see any purpose in it, this year I intend observe Lent through that particular tradition.
I feel that I need to get refocused spiritually and have a strong feeling (like a compulsion or conviction) that this is what I need to do.
To remind myself of the abundant blessings of God and the plenty and prosperity that I live in:
I am going to greatly reduce the food that I consume.
So much of the world around us starving or surviving daily on a small portion of what we eat in a single meal...or throw away in a day. I know that my not eating food that I have doesn't do anything thing to feed people that don't have food, but it does remind me that there are people that need help--people that I have the means to help. I'm not sure what my diet will look like; maybe oatmeal in the morning, something like a can of tuna or a salad for lunch, a modest dinner, no snacks...not really certain. Even as I write this, it sounds lame...but it's a start.
I am going to take a break from drinking sodas.
Much of the world today lacks the simple basic necessity of safe drinking water. It's hard for most of us to even imagine that there are places (lots of them) where there is little or no safe water to drink. Here, in the good old US of A, you can go to any gas station and drink the water directly from the outdoor spigot. In a land where drinking water is available everywhere you go, we often choose to pay $1 for a .5ltr bottle of water! (Think about that the next time you complain that gas is creeping up to $4 per gallon. You're already paying $8 per gallon for your bottled water!) So my body gets a break from the chemical crap and artificial sweeteners for a short time as I make the switch to plain old H2O. For me, it just serves as another reminder of one of my many blessings that I've taken for granted.
I'm going on a Facebook diet.
I like Facebook. I've reconnected with friends from my past and am able to share comments with friends and family across the country and around the globe. BUT...I fear that social media via the internet is quickly taking the place of personal relationships in our society. I am going to restrict my Facebook time each day and make the effort to make personal contact with people and work on building personal relationships with people.
So much for the self-denial and the "don't" side of things.
On the "do" side:
I need to get back to blogging.
I've noticed that Facebook and Twitter have greatly reduced the amount of time that many of us once gave to blogging. With the "set in stone" number of hours per day at 24, when more time goes to one new thing, it has to come away from on old thing. Hopefully, the Facebook diet will allow me to get back to posting more often in the coming weeks.
I don't know what the effect of this exercise will be. I don't know if I'll get more focused on what's important, how I've been blessed, what I need to be doing in ministry, how to better serve my God or if it will all turn out to be a brief exercise in futility. If I do stay with it for the 40 days (it's a weird count), at the very least I'll come away a little thinner, a little healthier, with some closer friends and maybe a few more coins in my pocket.
Tomorrow is Mardi Gras--Fat Tuesday. Guess I should take advantage of it this year!
John <><
Having grown up in a Roman Catholic home, deciding what to "give up" for Lent was always a matter of concern. It's been a long time since I've observed Lent through any type of self-denial. However, while many of my Baptist friends may not understand or see any purpose in it, this year I intend observe Lent through that particular tradition.
I feel that I need to get refocused spiritually and have a strong feeling (like a compulsion or conviction) that this is what I need to do.
To remind myself of the abundant blessings of God and the plenty and prosperity that I live in:
I am going to greatly reduce the food that I consume.
So much of the world around us starving or surviving daily on a small portion of what we eat in a single meal...or throw away in a day. I know that my not eating food that I have doesn't do anything thing to feed people that don't have food, but it does remind me that there are people that need help--people that I have the means to help. I'm not sure what my diet will look like; maybe oatmeal in the morning, something like a can of tuna or a salad for lunch, a modest dinner, no snacks...not really certain. Even as I write this, it sounds lame...but it's a start.
I am going to take a break from drinking sodas.
Much of the world today lacks the simple basic necessity of safe drinking water. It's hard for most of us to even imagine that there are places (lots of them) where there is little or no safe water to drink. Here, in the good old US of A, you can go to any gas station and drink the water directly from the outdoor spigot. In a land where drinking water is available everywhere you go, we often choose to pay $1 for a .5ltr bottle of water! (Think about that the next time you complain that gas is creeping up to $4 per gallon. You're already paying $8 per gallon for your bottled water!) So my body gets a break from the chemical crap and artificial sweeteners for a short time as I make the switch to plain old H2O. For me, it just serves as another reminder of one of my many blessings that I've taken for granted.
I'm going on a Facebook diet.
I like Facebook. I've reconnected with friends from my past and am able to share comments with friends and family across the country and around the globe. BUT...I fear that social media via the internet is quickly taking the place of personal relationships in our society. I am going to restrict my Facebook time each day and make the effort to make personal contact with people and work on building personal relationships with people.
So much for the self-denial and the "don't" side of things.
On the "do" side:
I need to get back to blogging.
I've noticed that Facebook and Twitter have greatly reduced the amount of time that many of us once gave to blogging. With the "set in stone" number of hours per day at 24, when more time goes to one new thing, it has to come away from on old thing. Hopefully, the Facebook diet will allow me to get back to posting more often in the coming weeks.
I don't know what the effect of this exercise will be. I don't know if I'll get more focused on what's important, how I've been blessed, what I need to be doing in ministry, how to better serve my God or if it will all turn out to be a brief exercise in futility. If I do stay with it for the 40 days (it's a weird count), at the very least I'll come away a little thinner, a little healthier, with some closer friends and maybe a few more coins in my pocket.
Tomorrow is Mardi Gras--Fat Tuesday. Guess I should take advantage of it this year!
John <><
Friday, March 04, 2011
Making an Exception: Politics Once Again
Today we are seeing the effects of the outrageous monies that were poured into the 2010 mid-term elections. It would seem that politicians are owned by the corporations that contributed to their campaigns.
As a result of the disastrous ruling by our Supreme Court in the Citizens United vs. FEC case, there was more money poured into the 2010 midterm election campaign than in all of the combined midterm elections since 1990. I do hope that you would point your friends to this blog or, at least, share the video link. When big dollars put our elected officials into office, it doesn't matter if they are Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Independent or anything else; they are owned by whomever owns the purse strings that helped to get them into office. We need to take back our democracy and return it to The People.
John
As a result of the disastrous ruling by our Supreme Court in the Citizens United vs. FEC case, there was more money poured into the 2010 midterm election campaign than in all of the combined midterm elections since 1990. I do hope that you would point your friends to this blog or, at least, share the video link. When big dollars put our elected officials into office, it doesn't matter if they are Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Independent or anything else; they are owned by whomever owns the purse strings that helped to get them into office. We need to take back our democracy and return it to The People.
John
Tuesday, March 01, 2011
Spiritual Doldrums
When the kids were little there was a book and video called The Phantom Tollbooth. In the story, the main character gets lost in a place called the Doldrums.
The "doldrums" are actually a geographical band where there is little wind; and so, back in the day, sailing ships that found themselves in the "doldrums" might be trapped there for days.
That's kind of where I'm finding myself these days--in a spiritual doldrums.
At my church, Hopedale, there is currently a feeling of a great movement of the Spirit that is growing among the people. It's really pretty exciting.
But personally, it's not there. I look at my own life (spiritually speaking) and think that I'm really sitting around and doing nothing. I know that we all have our busy schedules, family issues, jobs, social networks (both real and virtual), and a host of excuses of why we keep putting our Kingdom work aside. But that's kind of the point; there are too many other things that get in the way of serving the one that we claim is GOD.
I was just reading a passage in The Gospel According to Luke, chapter 8. It fit me...and that's not a good thing.
Here's what it says:
Did you see me? Did you see yourself?
Here is where I saw John; right in the midst of these words: The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life’s worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature.
"...choked out by life's worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature."
But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop.
It's odd that when we read these passages as believers, we always think of ourselves as "good soil" kind of people. I wonder what the people watching us would say. I wonder (and fear) what God would say.
Have you checked the crop lately? Mine is in need of some work.
John
The "doldrums" are actually a geographical band where there is little wind; and so, back in the day, sailing ships that found themselves in the "doldrums" might be trapped there for days.
That's kind of where I'm finding myself these days--in a spiritual doldrums.
At my church, Hopedale, there is currently a feeling of a great movement of the Spirit that is growing among the people. It's really pretty exciting.
But personally, it's not there. I look at my own life (spiritually speaking) and think that I'm really sitting around and doing nothing. I know that we all have our busy schedules, family issues, jobs, social networks (both real and virtual), and a host of excuses of why we keep putting our Kingdom work aside. But that's kind of the point; there are too many other things that get in the way of serving the one that we claim is GOD.
I was just reading a passage in The Gospel According to Luke, chapter 8. It fit me...and that's not a good thing.
Here's what it says:
4 While a large crowd was gathering and people were coming to Jesus from town after town, he told this parable: 5 “A farmer went out to sow his seed. As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path; it was trampled on, and the birds ate it up. 6 Some fell on rocky ground, and when it came up, the plants withered because they had no moisture. 7 Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up with it and choked the plants. 8 Still other seed fell on good soil. It came up and yielded a crop, a hundred times more than was sown.”
When he said this, he called out, “Whoever has ears to hear, let them hear.”
9 His disciples asked him what this parable meant. 10 He said, “The knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of God has been given to you, but to others I speak in parables, so that,
11 “This is the meaning of the parable: The seed is the word of God. 12 Those along the path are the ones who hear, and then the devil comes and takes away the word from their hearts, so that they may not believe and be saved. 13 Those on the rocky ground are the ones who receive the word with joy when they hear it, but they have no root. They believe for a while, but in the time of testing they fall away. 14 The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life’s worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature. 15 But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop.
Did you see me? Did you see yourself?
Here is where I saw John; right in the midst of these words: The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life’s worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature.
"...choked out by life's worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature."
But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop.
It's odd that when we read these passages as believers, we always think of ourselves as "good soil" kind of people. I wonder what the people watching us would say. I wonder (and fear) what God would say.
Have you checked the crop lately? Mine is in need of some work.
John
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Lessons Learned--or not...
So I'm back after a six week absence from writing. Over the past few weeks I've considered blogging several times but didn't for a couple of reasons.
One reason is that my heart just wasn't in it. I didn't feel like taking the time to write out what I was thinking about. It's not like I didn't have things to say--I just didn't feel like taking the time to figure out how to say it. If you've been reading for very long, you might think that it sounds strange since I usually just start typing and let the words flow. What you read is pretty much the same as what you would get if we were conversing one on one.
The difference is -- in conversation there is additional communication that is hard to convey in writing. Facial expressions, body language, tone, speed...all of these things are non-verbal ways of adding to the meaning of the actual words. These same things allow us to sense when somebody didn't actually get the same meaning from what you said that you intended for them to get and you can begin to make corrections.
And then there are the times that I just say what I think and it is offensive to people. That can happen in conversation almost as easily as it does in writing.
That happened a couple of months ago as I expressed some frustration and then had to go back and delete part of a post and make some defense of why I said what I said. I have to admit that part of that really ticked me off (and still does a little bit). After all, this is my blog. Read it if you want. Don't read it if you don't.
Okay...so maybe that's unreasonable.
I do want people to read my blog. I want to get feedback about the things that I've written. And I don't expect everybody to agree with everything that I write. As a matter of fact, I expect that there are plenty of you that don't agree with me most of the time. I often say that I'm a moral conservative, a political moderate and a social liberal. Given that description, I'm sure to offend most people at one time or another.
I know a bunch of people that say that's not possible. You can't be a moral conservative and vote for a democrat. You can't be a moral conservative and be for healthcare reform. You can't be a Christian and vote for anybody that's not a Christian. And on and on...
Did I mention that sometimes I offend people?
So, while I may try to be less offensive, I'm not sure that I'll succeed. I'm pretty sure that if I'm going to keep from offending people, I'm going to have to stop writing. In certain situations, I am really not all that concerned about offending people. There are times when we do what has to be done or say what has to be said and people are going to take offense.
One of the things that I wrote in defense of my previous post was, "I realize that it is a fault of mine that I have become less concerned about offending those that are more mature Christians--secure in their salvation, and more concerned about reaching those that are lost and securing the spiritual foundations in our young believers. I need to be more purposeful in doing the latter without the offense."
I'll keep writing...and I'll try to be less offensive.
John
As a side note: I started writing this afternoon with a post that would have certainly offended some people...maybe I'm learning...or maybe it will keep for another day.
One reason is that my heart just wasn't in it. I didn't feel like taking the time to write out what I was thinking about. It's not like I didn't have things to say--I just didn't feel like taking the time to figure out how to say it. If you've been reading for very long, you might think that it sounds strange since I usually just start typing and let the words flow. What you read is pretty much the same as what you would get if we were conversing one on one.
The difference is -- in conversation there is additional communication that is hard to convey in writing. Facial expressions, body language, tone, speed...all of these things are non-verbal ways of adding to the meaning of the actual words. These same things allow us to sense when somebody didn't actually get the same meaning from what you said that you intended for them to get and you can begin to make corrections.
And then there are the times that I just say what I think and it is offensive to people. That can happen in conversation almost as easily as it does in writing.
That happened a couple of months ago as I expressed some frustration and then had to go back and delete part of a post and make some defense of why I said what I said. I have to admit that part of that really ticked me off (and still does a little bit). After all, this is my blog. Read it if you want. Don't read it if you don't.
Okay...so maybe that's unreasonable.
I do want people to read my blog. I want to get feedback about the things that I've written. And I don't expect everybody to agree with everything that I write. As a matter of fact, I expect that there are plenty of you that don't agree with me most of the time. I often say that I'm a moral conservative, a political moderate and a social liberal. Given that description, I'm sure to offend most people at one time or another.
I know a bunch of people that say that's not possible. You can't be a moral conservative and vote for a democrat. You can't be a moral conservative and be for healthcare reform. You can't be a Christian and vote for anybody that's not a Christian. And on and on...
Did I mention that sometimes I offend people?
So, while I may try to be less offensive, I'm not sure that I'll succeed. I'm pretty sure that if I'm going to keep from offending people, I'm going to have to stop writing. In certain situations, I am really not all that concerned about offending people. There are times when we do what has to be done or say what has to be said and people are going to take offense.
One of the things that I wrote in defense of my previous post was, "I realize that it is a fault of mine that I have become less concerned about offending those that are more mature Christians--secure in their salvation, and more concerned about reaching those that are lost and securing the spiritual foundations in our young believers. I need to be more purposeful in doing the latter without the offense."
I'll keep writing...and I'll try to be less offensive.
John
As a side note: I started writing this afternoon with a post that would have certainly offended some people...maybe I'm learning...or maybe it will keep for another day.
Monday, January 03, 2011
The First Post of 2011
Okay, so I'm cheating on this one...
This is my part of several e-mails between all of my siblings. The names are of siblings, in-laws or relatives. I'm sorry that you are not privy to the other letters, but they are not mine to share.
If you have some suggested reading material, feel free to comment with your thoughts. Generally speaking, I read more nonfiction than fiction, and would like to read more of the classics.
Here are my opening thoughts for 2011:
So I end 2010 at the same weight as I started it...bad in that I really need to lose some of this weight, good in the sense that I'm also pretty level for the past few years. (weight-wise)
This is my part of several e-mails between all of my siblings. The names are of siblings, in-laws or relatives. I'm sorry that you are not privy to the other letters, but they are not mine to share.
If you have some suggested reading material, feel free to comment with your thoughts. Generally speaking, I read more nonfiction than fiction, and would like to read more of the classics.
Here are my opening thoughts for 2011:
So I end 2010 at the same weight as I started it...bad in that I really need to lose some of this weight, good in the sense that I'm also pretty level for the past few years. (weight-wise)
This year I will continue in battle with the idea that I posted on facebook--"The more weight you'd like to permanently lose, the more of your lifestyle you'll need to permanently change" -- Dr.Yoni Freedhoff
I'm doing well in already reducing portions and no seconds (except the roast at Theresa's this weekend was really good and worthy of a small second helping!) I'm bringing less food to the midshifts, and I'm drinking more water, less diet soda. We'll see how it all pans out.
Although I'll be eligible to retire 1 year from this Friday, three years of no raises and a thrift savings account that tanked may keep me working a little bit longer...it's time to really start crunching the numbers and see what retirement income will be and figure out what additional income will be from ministry and magic.
One other consideration--I've found an accredited Bible college that waives tuition for bi-vocational pastors and I have been told that as a bi-vocational evangelist I would qualify for their program. They are located in St. Louis and I could do all of my work online. If I continue working until I get my bachelor's degree, I could do it for the cost of books. I think that if I work right through it I can do it in about 18 mos.
I want to do more reading this year. I received The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde for Christmas and am looking forward to reading it. True Gritmakes the list because of the movie remake and conversation with Mike G. Last Days of the Late Great State of California is another Mike G recommendation that sounds pretty interesting. I'm reading Antiquities of the Jews by Flavius Josephus--that's a year long project along with daily readings that will put me through the Old Testament once and the New Testament twice this year. The Qu'ran also makes the must read list for 2011.
All in all, life is pretty good. I'd like to eat out less in 2011 and invite people over more. I'm really considering a garden this year, but know that it is more work than it seems it should be.
Last year I threatened Rick Rohman that I was going to crash his Fourth of July get-together and he said that was impossible because I have a standing invitation. Maybe we should plan on a family crash and make it a joint reunion/dad's birthday/4th of July bash with the Rohman clan.
Just a thought...
I'm still greatly impressed and somewhat humbled that you all traveled so far to be with us for Aaron and Jenny's wedding this past summer. I wish that I could have spent more time with you but trust that you all had plenty of time to visit with one another. We'll be traveling to Chicago in May for Jenny's graduation but don't know if the schedule will allow us time for visiting. I would like to make the trip with time to stop in Chillicothe and/or Bolingbrook at some point this year. As Theresa mentioned, you are all among my favorite people. As a family, we are truly blessed.
My simplest of goals is to be happy. There isn't really much that just ticks me off anymore. In fact, it's much more likely that I will be the one that ticks somebody else off by being brutally honest or just not knowing when to keep my mouth shut or my pen capped. Apparently not all of the Hill traits are virtues!
Love you guys!
And here's to a healthy and happy 2011 for all of us!
John
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